RESET

10-DAY PARENT CHALLENGE

RESET

10-DAY PARENT CHALLENGE

A step to step guide on how to ditch the overwhelm and break from the trial and error kind of parenting to a systematic and tailored one using my quick and simple, proven methods and system.

Start Date: January 14th, 2023

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We all dream of raising well-rounded children...

Unfortunately, dreams don't work themselves. Neither do our children get equipped or well rounded because they grew in age.


It takes more than sending your kids to the best schools or making them comfortable to raise kids who embody your values and can stand their own in the real world.


It starts with you.


Winging it through parenting, not having a detailed plan or vision and parenting like everyone
else will only lead to overwhelm, regret and frustration. 


Winging it through parenting will not help you raise the kids of your dream, who make you proud and gives you rest when you retire so you are not fixing their mistakes. 


What if this year begins the most remarkable years of your parenting?


Where you move from fear into rest...


You stop yelling, bribing, or threatening and come into a deep connection that sets you to parent in a way that prepares your child for life.


You stop parenting like everyone and focus on raising a unique child with a tailored vision and plan.

not sure YOU are CURRENTLY WINGING IT THROUGH PARENTING?

Here's is a 10-step checklist to help you put that to test

  • Your relationship with your pre-teen or teenager is becoming transactional.
  • You parent exactly the way you way parented even though you said you’ll be different
  • You are constantly yelling, threatening and bribing and it never works but instead leaves you exhausted.
  • Parenting is in the hands of your nannies. Your kids know their voice more than they know yours.
  • You sleep at night in fear, feeling you are not doing enough.
  • You haven't done a review or assessment of how you fared as a parent in the past 6 months even though you've reviewed your career or business goals.
  • Your pre-teen or teenager don’t have a deep connection or healthy relationship where they feed you back on how you are or how they are faring?
  • You don't have a clear plan to do parenting differently this year.
  • You don’t do a life skills audit or have a progressive plan on the life skills your pre-teen or teenager need to upskill.
  • You are constantly overwhelmed with the many roles you juggle as a busy working parent. 

I know exactly how this feels because I had these worries too... 

Here is my story

Hi, I’m Coach Fola,


A teen-development expert and parenting strategist. I am also a CBT therapist, certified NLP and a US-certified girl coach.


2 years ago, I had a big RESET. I was living in fear! The fear of what kind of life my kids would live as adults. Will they have the tools and skills to live in the real world, or will they make avoidable mistakes many adults now make, including me, because no one gave them the tools as a teenager?

As a teen expert who has worked with thousands of teens over the past 15 years, I know what that meant. Hence, I would sleep at night, feeling I wasn't doing my best. I knew so much, but I hadn't implemented the right systems that auto-piloted my vision as a parent.

One day, I ditched the fear and went into action, and I never slept in that fear, asking those questions anymore.

Also, no one knows your teenager as I do. Having worked for over 15 years within the teen ecosystem, I’ve helped thousands of teens find their voice, build their identity and put tools in their hands to help them navigate the adventurous years of adolescence so they can be prepared for the real world through diverse signature programs I run.

I believe the teenage years are practice years for adulthood so the earlier teenagers get the right tools with practice opportunities and supportive adults, the more they are prepared for a happy, fulfilling life as adults.

I know the importance of this first-hand. I was your typical good girl as a teenager. I ticked the boxes of my parents and society, but I got the rude shock of that not being enough in the real world.

Today, I help thousands of teens find their voice, build their identity and teach them tools to help them navigate their adventurous teen years.

 I teach parents how to do the same with their teenagers.


On this note, I want to welcome you into my personal space, my community, so I can work closely with you in order to help your teen become the real GEM they were meant to be

  • Just give me 10 days, let me open up my 15 years vault of experience and show you how to audit your parenting style, connect more with your pre-teens and teens and give them the right tools to help them grow into independent adults.
  • Let me show you firsthand how I was able to connect better with my pre-teen boys and the teens I work with and also get them ready for the life ahead of them despite my busy schedule.
  • Let me take you through my world and show you how I was able to conquer the fear of what my kids would become by taking the right steps.
  • Let me show you how to stop yelling, bribing or threatening and instead get your pre-teen or teenager to do what they should after the first time.
  • Let me share with you certain secrets you won't find me talk about anywhere else.

Introducing

RESET: 10 DAYS PARENT CHALLENGE

This is a hands-on-deck, fast execution. coaching for parents who want to break from the trial and error kind of parenting to a systematic and tailored one using my quick and simple, proven methods and system. The goal is for you to have the tools that help you parent with grace and less stress so,

Every day you get resources ranging from videos, worksheets and daily prompts to help you:

  • Review your past year
  • Audit your parenting pattern and be clear on how you are faring
  • Identify the bottlenecks you are experiencing now
  • Set tailored goals for you and your kids, not everyone else
  • Get simple and proven tools that help you parent differently;
  • Get my secret formulas to becoming a present and thriving parent despite your busy schedule.

HOW IT WORKS

  • It Starts on Jan 14.
  • After signing up, you get a welcome video that takes you through how to make the most of the challenge.
  • Every day over 10 days, you will get a new resource in the form of video, workbook, worksheets, and cheat sheets.
  • You'll have access to a private community and weekend live sessions where we discuss the resources shared, and you get to engage with me and ask other questions you may have.

Who is the challenge for?

  • Parent of kids between 8-14 years old (we have a higher variation for teens 14 and older HERE)
  • Parents who are tired of the trial and error kind of parenting where you don't see results or changes in your pre-teen or teen.
  • Parents who are tired of winging it.
  • You find yourself parenting how you were parented and you desperately don’t want to.
  • You are constantly yelling, threatening and bribing and it never works but instead leaves you exhausted.
  • You deeply want to raise well-rounded children and you want a simple and easy to adopt template to achieve this.
  • You don’t have time to all the books there is on parenting and still want to parent right.
  • You want to take parenting from the hands of your nannies and ensure they only become part of the system that helps you execute the vision you’ve created for yourself and your child.
  • You want to build a system in your home that enables you to parent in a systematic despite your busy schedule and be sure of specific outcomes.

What you get

DAY 1-5: REVIEW AND RESET

  • Day 1 - Welcome Video: 20 reflection questions to review your year-end
  • Day 2 - The 7 Parenting phases
  • Day 3 - What's stopping you? Identify your bottleneck & Parent Audit
  • Day 4 - From parenting in fear to parenting from rest
  • Day 5 - Create your tailored parenting roadmap. Learn the 5 goals every parent must have to thrive as a parent.

DAY 6-10: PARENT WITHOUT STRESS
EQUIP AND TAKE ACTION.

  • Day 6 - Thriving Relationship-7 reasons why you have a difficult relationship with your teenager, how to fix it and avoid it with your pre-teen. 
  • Day 7 - No time, No problem. 7 ways to make time work for you as a busy parent. So you are winning on all fronts all year round.
  • Day 8 - Improve your communication and engagement. Give instructions without yelling. Why yelling doesn't work and how to end it without a 30-day challenge-.My easy-peasy framework.
  • Day 9 - Planning the year and setting goals with your teenager
  • Day 10 - Auto-pilot your parent road map.

BONUSES

  • BONUS 1 - Tech Conversation Guide
  • BONUS 2 - 10 ways to teach your kids or teenager about faith,value and character.
  • BONUS 3- How I played catch-up (Expert Interview)
  • FAST ACTION- For the first 5 requests
    One 1:1 with you and your teenager
    Get personalised feedback from me

You might be wondering if this challenge is worth it...

I have coached and worked with parents who say I'm God's sent because of the changes they see in their lives and teens. 


Here are love notes from some of them

JOIN THE PROGRAM

  • 10-DAY PARENT CHALLENGE

One payment of $77 or ₦‎57,750

  • Review your past year
  • Audit your parenting pattern and be clear on how you are faring
  • Identify the bottlenecks you are experiencing now
  • Set tailored goals for you and your kids, not everyone else.
  • Get simple and proven tools that help you parent differently.
  • Get my secret formulas to becoming a present and thriving parent despite our busy schedule.
  • Welcome video that takes you through how to make the most of the challenge.
  • Every day over 10 days, you will get a new resource in the form of video, workbook, worksheets, and cheat sheets.
  • You'll have access to a private community and weekend live sessions.

WHAT CLIENTS ARE SAYING ABOUT COACH FOLA

16 years and still worth it!

Atinuke OY. - UK

I’m grateful to have met and known you. Being mentored by you has been very defining of the adult I am now, and I feel grateful. I still tell my husband about those days and how they moulded other girls and me into the strong pillars we are and will continue to be. By the way, I still cook my spaghetti the way you taught me 16 years ago.

I’m grateful and super proud of your work with teenagers.

I am over the moon

Ms Lara. - SOUTH AFRICA

I never had to remind my daughter about her session with you. I am surprised. She has grown so much in her confidence and is now the Peer Tutor Prefect and also the Head Girl in her school. I am over the moon. Thank you so much once again.

From tears to a happy and thriving relationship

Mrs Rufus. - NIGERIA

I was a very worried mum when I got a referral to Coach Fola and it has been one of my best investments. Now, I’m thankful to God for bringing you my way when I needed help the most. Thank you so much for your patience and your good work. She’s more confident and a lot more open in expressing her feelings.

I honestly can’t believe how my relationship with my daughter has transformed within a very short time working with Coach Fola. My relationship went from me shedding tears and worried about her value standpoint to us being happy and able to have conversations.


I’m not done with Coach Fola, I'm super ready to continue working with her in 2023 in the Present & Connected Parent Program.

Best Friend every girl needs.

Gab, 15. - NIGERIA

It’s Gabby saying Thank you. I’m honoured to be your student in this lifetime. You have shown me a lot more to the world. You are the best friend every girl needs, I love you so much and hope we can see each other in person one day.

Best Experience of my life.

Meira, 14.

My classes with Coach Fola have
been one of the best experiences in my life. It has helped me come out of the past situation I've been having, and it has helped me to value myself more.


I've learnt how to control my thinking and my emotions and balance them. I've learnt how to be happy no matter what and to always appreciate the good things you have because that always drowns out the bad things.

Thank you for these amazing few weeks, and I will forever remain grateful.

An Incredible coach and mentor

Susan
Flying Pigs Academy-
Australia

Fola is an incredible coach and mentor. She has an innate ability to decipher questions and share her experiences without judgement.


Her support has been amazing and I can’t thank her enough for the guidance and insights she has brought with her. She is direct yet nurturing and has the ability to help you get that light bulb moment.

The world is a brighter place with Fola in it.

Amanda
Founder, Shine from Within-
Australia

Fola is the expert I turn to when I'm looking for support for our youth mentors, our teens and especially if I've got a question about supporting parents of teens. She is an incredible human. I've had the pleasure of knowing her for quite a few years now, and she always shows up with kindness, joy and bucketloads of encouragement.


Her gifts are many, and she can get to the heart of what someone needs to hear - fast and impactful. I've seen how beautifully she holds space for and lifts, young people as a facilitator in our Online Academy over the past couple of years.


And I've seen how supportive she is of fellow youth mentors as an assistant trainer and mentor in our Youth Mentor Training. She has so much experience and knowledge in supporting and nurturing young people. The world is a brighter place with Fola in it.

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